- Say ‘Good Morning’ with a big smile
- Make them a cup of tea
- Ask their advice
- Lend them something
- Ask them the time/directions/where they bought that nice thing
- Share food with them
- Ask them about their family
- Buy them a drink
- Talk about TV you both like
- Tell them about something goofy you did
- Ask them on what would they spend a lottery win
- Gossip together
- Comment positively on their décor/car/bicycle/taste in desktop stationery
- Ask what they did/will do at the weekend
- Choose to sit next to them
- Ask if they can recommend a tradesperson/hairdresser/yogic guru
- Tell them about a crush you have
- Ask for help with a crossword clue
- Invite them for coffee
- Buy one, get one free, and give them the spare
- Show them a funny cartoon
- Ask their opinion on world events
- Go shopping together
- Catch their eye and smile
- Encourage their creativity
- Compliment their jewellery/hat/shoes/bag
- Ask for their support
- Tell them about something you love doing
- Ask where they’re going on holiday
- Do something naughty together
- See their point of view
- Ask them about their childhood/college years/first job
- Discuss favourite writers with them
- Ask what groups/clubs/organisations they belong to
- Ask to borrow something (and give it back soon)
- Let them talk
- Tell them about your love life
- Invite them to your birthday do
- Ask what art/music/film they like
- Share stories of injuries
- Talk about travel
- Talk about food
- Create a running in-joke with them
- Do karaoke together
- Treat them well
- Remember stuff they tell you
- Tell them they smell nice
- Have welcoming body language with them
- Talk conspiratorially with them
- Use their name
- Buy them a cake
- Doodle a cartoon of them and gift it to them
- Think about their comfort, not yours
- Ask if they collect anything
- Go swimming together
- Ask them to scratch a place you can’t reach
- Take their turn at the washing up
- Sing a song together
- Touch their arm
- Let them go first
- Help them
- Look pleased to see them
- Enquire after their health then listen to the answer
- Laugh together
- Play a silly game together
- .…or a clever game
- Teach them a useful skill
- Share an umbrella
- Assume they are a good person
- Empathise with them
- Find something esoteric you have in common
- Tell them a secret
- Tell them when they have a cappuccino moustache
- Show them your weird birthmark/tattoo/hairy mole
- Swap childhood tales
- Jog together
- Give them a lift
- Notice the colour of their eyes
- Compliment them on an unusual quality or skill
- Be genuine with them
- Make them feel useful
- Remember their tea, milk and sugar needs
- Recommend a good show to them
- Compare feet/hands/ears
- Let them be nice to you
- Bring them back a free or silly gift from your holiday (a shell, seaside rock, a beermat)
- Offer them your warm jumper/hat/scarf
- Compromise on something together
- Write something personal on their birthday card
- Thank them
- Ask them if they need a hug
- Confide in them
- Look out of the window together
- Ask them to join your team
- Work together in companionable silence
- Defend them publicly
- Be compassionate to them
- Gently tease them
- Give them the best chair
- Go somewhere beautiful together
Further tips on making friends: http://www.towerofpower.com.au/11-tips-from-benjamin-franklin-to-make-friends